Hey all, I just got an 03 X and absolutly love it. I put on a rec. hitch and I'm trying to connect the wiring (4pin.) The instructions show the connection just hanging there on the pass. side rear. I cannot find it on my truck. Am I missing something? I did read somewhere that some of the first gen. with manual trans. did not come pre wired for trailers. Would this be the case for mine? Please help. Thanks.