I have a 2012 xtera , and need to know the right bilstein shocks all around and upper control arms , I bought a 3 inch lift for that bit extra wheel space , and bought 4 bilsteins along with upper control arms. that said I took it to a mechanic and they told me they are the wrong shocks the control arms don't fit and they couldn't fit the 3 inch lift kit....yes they were not too bright I'm afraid. SO that's where I am, spent lots of cash and so far am no where closer to having my ride , well rideable. Any one who's done this ? would love a bit of knowledge please. I tried to reinvent the wheel without much success.